Friday, June 17, 2011

Remembering

With Father's Day being this Sunday I find myself thinking more than usual about my Daddy. Floods of memories: hugs, kisses, Juicy Fruit gum, personal attention, church, laughter, tears. All of these memories are as fresh today as when they were made. My father was a godly man filled with immense love for his wife and daughters - his entire family. He was a quiet man whose spoken words held more weight than anything many eloquent people have said. Long before it was en vogue Daddy was a nurturer. He never hesitated to take us anywhere we needed to go - sit by our bedside when we were ill - brush our hair. He was Mr. Mom when Mother was tied up with something (usually one of my other sisters). He didn't have to be asked - he just simply knew when and what needed to be done. He worked 12 hours a day, six days a week, for almost 40 years - but he ALWAYS had time for us. I am so thankful for God sending me to him and my mother. I have no regrets at all when I reminisce about Daddy. (BTW 0 he died January 26, 1993).

But, I am saddened when I look at so many "children" who have never had such a precious relationship with their father. If your father is still living call him, hug him, tell him you love him. I pray that you, too, can one day say you had no regrets.

1 comment:

  1. What a blessing to have such godly memories. Our perceptions of our Heavenly Father can be scewed by our relationship with our earthly fathers. Sometimes it is hard to think that part of God's purpose for us is the family we have grown up in, including both the good and the challenges.

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